wonderful story
i so envy Stephen
i njoyed the story and was living it through Stpehen
Wonderpup
Posted February 10, 2010 at 10:33 AM
What I liked most about this article is the encouragement of SL BDMS people to meet RL BDSMers and vice versa. Time is only wasted when one group disrespects another when they can be gaining mutually instead. Keep up the great work!
Lucian
Posted February 21, 2010 at 2:40 PM
Very nice article. I’m myself a sub and often return to my SL home downhearted, by the amount of crap that is sold, from a shopping trip.
From the mentioned creators i only knew two of them. Would it be possible to link to such shops in an article?
Lucian, I hand picked the Femdom animation and toy designers that are located over at Dominion Fetish. All of the big ones are there and they are all high quality. I would definitely recommend that as the first stop for anyone looking for Femdom items.
Madeleine
Posted February 22, 2010 at 9:06 AM
Lucian, if you are looking for a particular one you can’t find, get a hold of me. I still have all that info. And thank you!
addamms
Posted March 12, 2010 at 12:58 AM
How easily we are intimidated and manipulated. The truth of the matter is that most of us would have to be forced the way James was. Good story.
As always, it was a joy to share time with you in first life today Your words are quite poetic, lovely Lady. Thank you for sharing your perspective from the top
Warm Hugs,
Mistress Lisa
Mistress Raffi
Posted March 16, 2010 at 1:13 PM
Thank you Sue, wonderpup and Mistress Lisa for your kind words.
Mistress Lisa refers in her post to the munch of the femdom group she founded nearly a decade ago. LADs. The style of LADs munch has been the inspiration for the weekly munch I host as a duchess at the Velvet Thorn in SL. Mistress Lisa’s welcoming attitude and the high standards the circle of LADs Leaders set for the group inspire everyone who comes.
wowww raffi !! i’m sooo proud of you, you know it yes such a long way since we met…….
time left, memories stay ^^
Hugs Raffi
dionysus
Posted April 6, 2010 at 7:58 PM
ok now that i understand subspace & subdrop what about how to get a sub too subspace how can i emote using props and what should the scene be like, can anyone help with this please
ok now that i understand subspace & subdrop what about how to get a sub too subspace how can i emote using props and what should the scene be like, can anyone help with this please
Marco
Posted June 7, 2010 at 4:25 AM
In my experience, I learned that some Femdom believe that slaves are stupid and must obey any command. This is true, but it is also true that the commands must be given by the degree of affinity that is created. Unfortunately, in Second Life there are many people who believe that the role of the Mistress is higher than that of the slave, but not absolutely so. Two roles are of equal importance, even though it was completely opposite. A slave without a Mistress is nothing. A Mistress is nothing without a slave.
I appreciate the discussion on switching as it seems to me to have a bad rap in the BDSM community. There are probably many more switches out there who are afraid to let others know.
Hi Amy/Dionysus,
I’m not sure what you mean about emoting using props and what the scene should be like – but you’re welcome to come talk to me in world if you wish and I’ll see if I can answer your questions.
Sue.
Jenna McLean
Posted June 24, 2010 at 8:44 AM
Interesting read. I do wonder about Kendra Denimore’s comment about most mistresses start at the bottom, and inferring that to be good one must start there. Where is she gathering her statistics from? I have many peers who have started and remained dominant in the “real life” lifestyle, and are fantastic in their roles.
Mistress Raffi
Posted June 27, 2010 at 5:53 AM
Oh Alexis I am touched you came by to read. The first woman to befried me in Sl, who gave me the gift of the hugger/sexy walk, making it simple to hug my friends. Thank you, oldest friend.
Marco, I agree the some femdoms do not treat slaves with respect. We seek to educate new dommes to avoid this syndrome. It’s seen in rl, too, among the inexperienced or ill-mannered. But I would disagree about the “nothingness” of an uncollared slave or a Mistress without a slave.
Long ago I tried to be a sub with an alt, I learned how difficult it is to face rejection, to wait for attention, to hope for One who will notice you. As a mistress without a sub in SL for several months, my heart is desolate with loss and loneliness.
But shaky as I am without my dear one, I am still a mistress and certainly not “nothing”. What matters is compassion–understanding between the uncollared slaves and lonely mistresses. We are still whole, even tho unconnected.
Chealsea Guardian
Posted July 13, 2010 at 6:09 PM
Very wonderful issue, Eva. I like the more streamlined and informative delivery – I hope the next issue is even better yet!
Femdom Magazine
Posted July 14, 2010 at 1:29 AM
Thank you Chealsea! We are already working on our next issue..its going to be something a bit different. Lookout!
Apricus
Posted July 25, 2010 at 1:06 PM
Thank you, Ms. Karu, for sharing this very well written story. You did a great job thinking through the details making the story relatively believable. I hope you consider writing Part Three.
Raffi – What a wonderful article, I thoroughly enjoyed reading it! Thank you
love this very much and it opened my mind more well done.
Thank you for putting this together! It’s a nice site!
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wonderful story
i so envy Stephen
i njoyed the story and was living it through Stpehen
What I liked most about this article is the encouragement of SL BDMS people to meet RL BDSMers and vice versa. Time is only wasted when one group disrespects another when they can be gaining mutually instead. Keep up the great work!
Very nice article. I’m myself a sub and often return to my SL home downhearted, by the amount of crap that is sold, from a shopping trip.
From the mentioned creators i only knew two of them. Would it be possible to link to such shops in an article?
Lucian, I hand picked the Femdom animation and toy designers that are located over at Dominion Fetish. All of the big ones are there and they are all high quality. I would definitely recommend that as the first stop for anyone looking for Femdom items.
Lucian, if you are looking for a particular one you can’t find, get a hold of me. I still have all that info. And thank you!
How easily we are intimidated and manipulated. The truth of the matter is that most of us would have to be forced the way James was. Good story.
Greetings Mistress Raffila,
As always, it was a joy to share time with you in first life today
Your words are quite poetic, lovely Lady. Thank you for sharing your perspective from the top 
Warm Hugs,
Mistress Lisa
Thank you Sue, wonderpup and Mistress Lisa for your kind words.
Mistress Lisa refers in her post to the munch of the femdom group she founded nearly a decade ago. LADs. The style of LADs munch has been the inspiration for the weekly munch I host as a duchess at the Velvet Thorn in SL. Mistress Lisa’s welcoming attitude and the high standards the circle of LADs Leaders set for the group inspire everyone who comes.
Thank you for your kind words, Ma’am
wowww raffi !! i’m sooo proud of you, you know it yes
such a long way since we met…….
time left, memories stay ^^
Hugs Raffi
ok now that i understand subspace & subdrop what about how to get a sub too subspace how can i emote using props and what should the scene be like, can anyone help with this please
ok now that i understand subspace & subdrop what about how to get a sub too subspace how can i emote using props and what should the scene be like, can anyone help with this please
In my experience, I learned that some Femdom believe that slaves are stupid and must obey any command. This is true, but it is also true that the commands must be given by the degree of affinity that is created. Unfortunately, in Second Life there are many people who believe that the role of the Mistress is higher than that of the slave, but not absolutely so. Two roles are of equal importance, even though it was completely opposite. A slave without a Mistress is nothing. A Mistress is nothing without a slave.
I appreciate the discussion on switching as it seems to me to have a bad rap in the BDSM community. There are probably many more switches out there who are afraid to let others know.
I don’t mean to hijack your site but we have started a group on where we’re trying to help share information and ideas about International FemDom Day. Please feel free to contribute anything you like or to take anything you find useful.
http://fetlife.com/groups/19933
Hi Amy/Dionysus,
I’m not sure what you mean about emoting using props and what the scene should be like – but you’re welcome to come talk to me in world if you wish and I’ll see if I can answer your questions.
Sue.
Interesting read. I do wonder about Kendra Denimore’s comment about most mistresses start at the bottom, and inferring that to be good one must start there. Where is she gathering her statistics from? I have many peers who have started and remained dominant in the “real life” lifestyle, and are fantastic in their roles.
Oh Alexis I am touched you came by to read. The first woman to befried me in Sl, who gave me the gift of the hugger/sexy walk, making it simple to hug my friends. Thank you, oldest friend.
Marco, I agree the some femdoms do not treat slaves with respect. We seek to educate new dommes to avoid this syndrome. It’s seen in rl, too, among the inexperienced or ill-mannered. But I would disagree about the “nothingness” of an uncollared slave or a Mistress without a slave.
Long ago I tried to be a sub with an alt, I learned how difficult it is to face rejection, to wait for attention, to hope for One who will notice you. As a mistress without a sub in SL for several months, my heart is desolate with loss and loneliness.
But shaky as I am without my dear one, I am still a mistress and certainly not “nothing”. What matters is compassion–understanding between the uncollared slaves and lonely mistresses. We are still whole, even tho unconnected.
Very wonderful issue, Eva. I like the more streamlined and informative delivery – I hope the next issue is even better yet!
Thank you Chealsea! We are already working on our next issue..its going to be something a bit different. Lookout!
Thank you, Ms. Karu, for sharing this very well written story. You did a great job thinking through the details making the story relatively believable. I hope you consider writing Part Three.